Anonymity / Privacy

Q. How does JustSayYesToLove.com protect my privacy?

A. Relationships are private. We plan to keep it that way. Review our Privacy Policy for all the details.

Q. How are the emails I send to other members anonymous?

A. JustSayYesToLove preserves your privacy by directing your emails through our double-blind system — our exclusive technology that strips your real email address and replaces it with your username and the domain JustSayYesToLove.com. Then the system forwards your messages to the members you’re emailing.


Sending anonymous email.

One way to contact members is by clicking the "email me" link in their profiles. The other way is to address your email to username@JustSayYesToLove.com, inserting the intended recipient’s username. Note: You only can send anonymous email from the address you gave us when you signed up.

Replying to email from other members.

DO NOT SIMPLY PRESS YOUR REPLY BUTTON. Doing so may reveal your real email address. Before you send your reply, ensure you’ve turned off your auto-signatures and auto-responders. Read through your responses to ensure your actual email address does not appear. Make certain not to copy (cc:) or forward email to yourself when you send a message from your own email program.

Q. Why can’t my password be the same as my email address?

A. Your password is a unique word or phrase that you select. Unlike your email address, your password should not correspond in any way to your identity outside the JustSayYesToLove.com community - ensuring that your anonymity is protected until you decide to reveal it.

For security purposes, account passwords are encrypted, so it will be necessary to create a new password for your account if you've forgotten your existing login information.

To create a new JustSayYesToLove password, please follow the steps below:

1. Go to our website at www.justsayyestolove.com
2. Click “Sign In” at the top of the page.
3. If you don't remember your password: 
Just enter your email address in the Username box, then click on "Send My Password".
5. Enter the e-mail address associated with your account
6. Click the “Continue” button.

You will then receive an e-mail containing your JustSayYesToLove username and a randomly generated temporary password within a few minutes. This e-mail will also contain instructions on how to log into your account with your temporary password.

If you do not receive this e-mail within a few minutes, please check any SPAM or Junk-mail filters that may be active on your personal e-mail account.

Why can’t I see my photo?

If your photos aren't visible yet, it's due to one of these reasons: 

You uploaded the photos and we have not yet approved them.

This process usually takes 24 hours but can vary based on volume. We appreciate your patience. If there is a problem with your pictures you will hear from us via e-mail.

There was a problem with the photos you uploaded.

If the photos you uploaded were too big (maximum file size __MB) or unusable for some other reason, we will contact you via e-mail.

You mailed your photos for JustSayYesToLove to scan and post.

We have many users who physically mail photos in for scanning. This does take extra time. You may want to consider taking your photos to a Kinko's and having them scan and e-mail your photos. 

Kinko's, as you probably know, is a photocopier store. They also have photo scanners, and the staff is usually really nice. Just take your favorite picture of yourself down to the closest one, and tell them that you need it to be scanned. 

Tell them that the final result should be a JPEG file that is about ___ pixels wide, and a maximum size of __MB. Then, you can e-mail the file to us as an attachment;

To upload photos, please follow the steps below:

Log into your JustSayYesToLove account

Click on the “Add/Edit Photos” link;

Click on the “Add Record” subheading link;

On the Add Photo page, you will see a "browse" button. Click this, and select the photo file you want to upload.  

Then click "Upload Photo" and the photo should appear.  Then click save photo.

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Q. Does online dating really work?

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Q. Is online dating safe?

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Q. What are the odds of meeting someone I’m interested in on JustSayYesToLove.com?

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